|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
"Grief is healing: To take away our grief is to take away our healing. And learning about life after death helps us heal with greater hope, comfort and peace." ~ Bob OlsonIn approximately five years of investigating the possibility of life after death, I have discovered convincing evidence that there really is an afterlife, that we really do continue to... Read More
It is one thing to be free; it is quite another to be liberated. Liberation implies that freedom was absent for a time, and there was bondage. Though it may seem like a dichotomy, grief has both the power to bind and the power to liberate from bondage.Initially, when a person we love dies, we are in the bondage of... Read More
There is only one place where tragedy occurs, and that is in the mind. Tragedy may appear to you on the physical level, however, it is the enormous power of your mind that creates the pain and separation you feel, from Love, from God, from Life itself when you listen to what your egoic thoughts are telling you, rather than... Read More
All of us at one time or another have felt grief: perhaps over a lost job, lost love, or the most heartbreaking, the death of someone we loved dearly. Each of us goes about the task of grieving in our own distinct way.When we lose a loved one the grief path is long and complicated. We feel so many different... Read More
1) Don't try to make the grieving person feel better. YOU CANNOT. For many grievers it only serves to make them feel guilty or worse. Grievers MUST experience the pain of grief for healing to ultimately occur.2) Don't tell the griever to give it time. Time has stopped for the griever. Life proceeds in slow motion. Life is too surreal... Read More
Consumed by my loss, I didn't notice the hardness of the pew where I sat. I was at the funeral of my dearest friend - my Mother. She finally had lost her long battle with cancer. The hurt was so intense; I found it hard to breathe at times.Always supportive, Mother clapped loudest at my football matches, held a box... Read More
During the two years of my husband's terminal illness, death was never far from my mind. We had been told he was dying and even a time in which it was supposed to happen. We had no idea of how it would happen. I was loathe to let him out of my sight incase he should suddenly die and not... Read More
If tears are an indication of how special my relationship with my mother was, I cry with pride! I've come to see grief as pain with a purpose. Interestingly enough, as I cared for my mother in my home the last several weeks of her life, much of what I had learned through spiritual teachings about death had gone out... Read More
Men grieve differently from women. Our cultural roles make it difficult for men to look for support, and harder again to accept it. Men are so often silent, solitary mourners who immerse themselves in activity and private, symbolic rituals. They feel profoundly, but often can't express the depth of their loss.A man is supposed to be "strong," to support, to... Read More
Suicide is the one form of death that has quite a stigma attached to it. It brings with it a feeling of shame and betrayal. It is not the same as saying to someone "My father died in a car crash" nor is it the same as saying someone died from a heart attack. Having to explain that someone took... Read More
|
|||||
|
|
|
|||
When my phone rang the other day, it was a... Read More
The loss of a loved one. It is often difficult... Read More
You will often hear that grief and loss bring couples... Read More
"Grief is healing: To take away our grief is to... Read More
When the death of a loved one occurs, regardless or... Read More
One of the areas where I seem to be placing... Read More
Have you ever lost the ability to laugh? I did.When... Read More
Silent tears hit hospital-white sheets. The young Pakistani mother holds... Read More
My nan was called Margaret and lived until the age... Read More
I didn't know a heart could die before it stopped... Read More
If we were to organize a list of the thorniest... Read More
The Encyclopaedia Britannica (1999 edition) defines empathy as:"The ability to... Read More
What is it about Grief & Loss that upsets us... Read More
It is one thing to be free; it is quite... Read More
Not long after Arlyn died, my husband and I decided... Read More
Everyday, I look in the mirror to see the face... Read More
When my phone rang the other day, it was a... Read More
I got an email recently from someone whose mother died.... Read More
The impatient tooting of a car horn startled us into... Read More
Shortly after noon, I went into Arlyn's bedroom to get... Read More
Dealing with Grief & LossDealing with Grief & Loss |